Do you have a purpose in life? Do you have a mission? Do you have something that you are pursuing in your life?
Having a purpose or mission in life is very important. If you know where you are going and have some kind of vision then you are going to come across as confident and your interactions with other people are going to become better and you will know what to say when that dreaded question comes across, "what do you do?"
By having this mission, purpose, vision you can then work hard on it to create that great lifestyle that you want for yourself and the people around you,
How good does that sound? Having the perfect lifestyle for yourself. I know what mine is. Do you know what your perfect lifestyle is?
Finally, and I believe that this is the most important thing, you need to get in shape. I believe that if you get yourself in shape then everything else follows because you have the energy and the confidence to pursue these other things. I must admit that I have had a month or so of not very good nutrition and exercise and it shows and I feel it.
Get yourself a mission.
Build yourself a great lifestyle.
Get yourself in shape.