If you know where you are going and have some kind of vision then you are going to come across as confident and your interactions with other people are going to become better.
This is the main theme of July. Do you have a mission? Do you have a purpose in life? Are you going after these things? Are you fighting for your vision?
When you have a vision and have a purpose of life your confidence goes up and then you become more interesting as a person because you start talking about things with passion and enthusiasm. This passion and enthusiasm makes you come across as being more charismatic and people will flock to you.
Another way that your confidence will grow is if you turn up prepared. Preparation is vital in all areas of your life. If you are prepared then you are going to get the results that you deserve. Do you think the people going to the Olympics are going with no preparation? Absolutely not. They are going with years and years of preparation and because of this they are going to be very confident in their chase of the gold medal.
Every decision in your life is going to help or hinder you. Every decision is going to help your confidence or it is going to diminish your confidence. Try to make decisions that help your confidence. Obviously it isn't going to be perfect but the more you think about it the better you will become.
Sometimes to build your confidence you are going to have to jump out of your comfort zone from time to time. That might mean calling someone you don't want to. It might mean doing something that you don't want to do. (What do they say? Successful people are ones who do what they have to do whether they want to or not.) It might mean smiling at a stranger as you walk down the street. It might mean paying a stranger a compliment with no hidden agenda.
All of these things are going to help you in today's world and help you become the person that you have always wanted to become. And if you are successful with these things then you are going to make an impact on this world and that is when things start to happen for you. You will become someone in this world.
There you have it. Thank you for the first four months of this blog. I look forward to the next four months as we continue to grow together to become that person who can thrive today.