Here's a question for today.
How do you know if someone is enjoying themselves?
Are they climbing the walls, shouting at the top of their voice, drawing attention to themselves and having hundreds of worshippers praising them at the club?
Is it the guy who quietly comes everyday and then goes home but he he is there everyday?
Is it that person who is taking a photo every five seconds while filming little videos for his or her Instagram feed?
We show our enjoyment in different ways. Just because the guy is not jumping up and down and shouting at the top his lungs that he loves everyone, it doesn't mean he is not enjoying his time.
Maybe he likes to sit casually in the corner. Talking to people who venture his way. Listening to the music as it is played. Hoping that his new favourite song is played. Observing the people in their natural habitat.
He is not yahooing. He is not telling everyone within earshot how good he is. He's just sitting there having a great time.
Let him be. He's fine. You don't have to ask him if he is fine or not. That is the way he enjoys himself and that is fine too. Just because he doesn't fit into what you think fun should be doesn't mean he is wrong. Far from it.
We enjoy in different ways. Deal with it.