One of the most well known episodes when George Costanza decides to do 'The Opposite.' He decided that nothing ever worked out for him the conventional way and what his instincts were saying so he decides to do everything 'The Opposite.' Believe it or not, he gets some unbelievable results. New job, new girlfriend, new apartment.
It starts off by ordering something different to what he usually does. Then he talks to a woman at the restaurant who he normally wouldn't. He gets a job at the New York Yankees by basically not caring and telling the owner what he really thinks.
If you are not getting the results you want what harm is there in doing the opposite? It surely can't be any worse than what is happening at the moment and like George you might become 'the assistant to the travelling secretary' for the New York Yankees. Or you might meet the partner of your dreams or find yourself in a place that you really enjoy living in.
Remember, do 'The Opposite' and see what happens. You might surprise yourself and the people around you and who knows where your decision might lead you.
Good luck. Tell me how it goes.