A FEW QUOTES TO PONDER OVER

Here are a few quotes from author Jeff Brown:

"Sometimes the people with the greatest potential often take the longest to find their path because their sensitivity is a double edged sword - it lives at the heart of their brilliance, but it also makes them more susceptible to life's pains. Good thing we aren't penalised for handing in our purpose late. The soul doesn't know a thing about deadlines." - Jeff Brown.

This really strikes a chord with me. I'm 44 years old and I believe that I have just found what I am supposed to do and I am susceptible to life's pains. I take it a lot harder than most other people.


“Sometimes people walk away from love because it is so beautiful that it terrifies them. Sometimes they leave because the connection shines a bright light on their dark places and they are not ready to work them through. Sometimes they run away because they are not developmentally prepared to merge with another- they have more individuation work to do first. Sometimes they take off because love is not a priority in their lives- they have another path and purpose to walk first. Sometimes they end it because they prefer a relationship that is more practical than conscious, one that does not threaten the ways that they organize reality. Because so many of us carry shame, we have a tendency to personalize love's leavings, triggered by the rejection and feelings of abandonment. But this is not always true. Sometimes it has nothing to do with us. Sometimes the one who leaves is just not ready to hold it safe. Sometimes they know something we don't- they know their limits at that moment in time. Real love is no easy path- readiness is everything. May we grieve loss without personalizing it. May we learn to love ourselves in the absence of the lover.” - Jeff Brown

I'm not sure what I can add to this quote. I'm sure that a lot of you have had one or many of these situations in your life and so you can relate. I know I can.