You are probably wondering why there is a picture of a chocolate bar. Well, this is one of my favourite chocolate bars, the Flake. It is so good. Please buy some if you don't believe me.
So, lets go back to the photo, why is there a picture of a Flake, well, it is because people flake on you. This means that they will cancel plans that they had with you at the last minute with some weird reason.
Why do they do this? Because when they said yes to your invitation, they didn't really want to say yes, it was just safer to say yes than to have an awkward moment. This is really selfish on their account of the person who is the flaker. Usually they do it out of insecurity.
Flaking can be really frustrating for the flakee.
In my experience, women do this to men all the time thinking that if they say yes and flake then they are not really been mean but in fact they are been the worst kind. They are being really cruel and I can tell you from experience that it does not feel good because as a guy you may have had prepared a cool date. You might have made reservations that you have to pay a deposit for and you can't get back if you cancel.
What can you do about it?
I suppose the best thing is to not get angry. Anticipate that this might happen and have a backup plan so that the day or night is not a total loss. Also chalk it up to one of life's experiences.
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