Wednesday, 2 May 2018

DEAR MEN ........

Today's post is going to be for men. So, ladies, you can have the day off if you like or you are more than welcome to have a read. That is up to you.

So, guys. How's it going? Are you having a great day? Are you kicking arse (ass)?

You're not?

Well what can you and I do to make our lives better and to become the best version of ourselves?

Number one, understand what is the one thing that makes you, you? What is that one thing that makes you attractive to other people?

If you can cultivate that one thing then you are well on the road to becoming the man that you know deep in your heart that you can be. It can be anything but if you can make that thing a real part of you then you will become more confident and more attractive to women and the other people around you. Maybe they know you so far as a nice guy but not someone that they want to hang with for extended periods of time.

Number two, build a lifestyle that people want to be a part of.

I know that I have been guilty of this and I'm sure that many people out there who are reading this have been guilty of this too, they put off things like hanging with friends, building a career, interacting with family to try and get a woman. When they should be doing these things. They should be concentrating on their career or they should be concentrating on the things that make them who they are and instead of you chasing, if you do it well they will be chasing you.

Build a lifestyle so that men want to be like you and women want to be with you. A cliche I know, but it is true.

Last but not least is number three and this is the need to develop your personality.

What you need to do and this is another cliche I'm sorry, it is to be yourself and to be comfortable with being yourself. Naturally on occasions you may need to step out of shell but the most important is to be comfortable of who you are. That confidence will show out and people will want to be around you.


  1. What is one thing that makes you, you?
  2. Build a lifestyle that people want to be a part of.
  3. Develop your personality that is natural to you.

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