"By visualising your goal already completed, you flip your mind onto the frequency that contains the way that it will be attracted to you." - Bob Proctor
Visualisation is the secret. You need to see it in your mind first. As the patron saint of the self development movement, Napoleon Hill said:
"Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve." - Napoleon Hill
That's it, isn't it? You have to see it first in your mind and then go from there.
I wonder what Walt Disney saw in his mind when he conceived Disneyland.
We do live in an extroverted society and sometimes you need to "come out of your shell."
What is the first step? Well, you visualise yourself in different situations. You play over in your mind what you want to say or are going to say. Think about your surroundings and how you feel about the moment.
That's a great first step. Now visualise it many times and it will happen, I assure you.
To end this post, lets hear from Bob Proctor again:
"See yourself where you want to be and then be there. Don't be in the past. Be there! Act like the person you want to become." - Art of Living pg. 87 Bob Proctor