Do you organise parties? Do you get people over to your place for a bit of a soiree? If you are reading this and you are an introvert or an ambivert, there is a high chance that the answer to this question is "No."
What I am suggesting today though is rather than organising a party which I know can be quite stressful and can be a pain in the butt, organise to meet a couple of friends and you become the leader. You know where you are going and then you are in control. You are not being dragged to some place in which you are uncomfortable by your more extroverted friends. You are the leader and you know what is going on and you know that you are going to have a great night because you designed it.
So quit being the follower. Start becoming the leader and build the lifestyle that you want and probably deserve.