HOW DO INTROVERTS CARE FOR YOU?

For some people (especially extroverts) introverts can be a bit of a closed book and some of the time you don't know exactly where you stand with them.

Let me tell you there are things that you can notice that means that the introvert or introverts in your life actually like and care for you.

Here are 6 examples:

1. If an introvert actually instigates something then he or she cares about you. I tell you something, we are not going to do it if we only half like you. We have just spent a day at work, interacting with people that get on our nerves and are particularly annoying, but the fact that we are wanting to spend some time with you instead of going home and recharging by ourselves means that you mean a lot. Go for it. It won't happen that often.


2. An introvert who likes you and wants to spend time with you will remember your birthday. They will remember stuff (sometimes unusual stuff) that you have told them about yourself. You might have told them that your favourite band growing up was WhiteSnake. Guess what? Guess who is going to text you or (god forbid) call you and tell you that WhiteSnake are playing in town next month? That's right.

By the way, WhiteSnake were supposed to play in Japan in October 2019 but they had to reschedule. What a pity!

3. We will be at your party, no doubt about that. If we care for you, we will be there absolutely no ifs or buts about it. As regular readers will know, the party is not the introvert's natural habitat. It can be a real step outside of that comfort zone for Mr. or Ms. Introvert to bowl along to that soiree. They are saying to you that you mean a lot and they wouldn't miss it for the world. Just don't be offended if they leave early.


4. If an introvert starts telling you his or her deepest, darkest secrets the you can safely assume that he or she is telling you that you mean a lot to him or her. Get it? You should be honoured as they have allowed you into their "inner circle" or should we say "The Circle of Trust." 

5. For an introvert, their alone time is like gold dust. They protect it with their life. However, when they invite you spend that time, that is a HUGE sign that they care, respect and maybe even love you. This is another reason that you need to take advantage of this situation because it may never happen again or may not happen again for a long time. You have probably shown to the introvert that you don't have to fill the silence with inane small talk and the like and you realise that just sitting there is fine.


6. If an introvert cared for you, they will never forget you. You may have drifted apart. You may have not seen each other for years and years but they will remember that you cared for them and that you gave them your time and if your paths cross again I'm sure that the introvert will let you back into his or her life. 

The introvert might not say it but as the old saying goes, "action is worth a thousand words" or is that "picture"? I sure you understand what I am saying.